Tuesday, September 18, 2007



I'm still sick with my lovely headache which sleeping seems to not cure. So I've taken the time to do some blog-stuff.

Updated Alphonsus' blog url ( Finally )
Linked Sherman, Sidney and Lin Chun ( Also Finally )

Woke up this morning with the grandmama of all headaches. I half-walked half-stumbled to my parents room and managed to smash into the bedpost, the towel rack and the door. The door. Can you imagine?

Told them about my headache, then stumbled back to bed and promptly dropped right back in...Did I manage to sleep? Yes. After like half an hour because I was just absolutely worried sick and contemplating whether the hell to go to school or not because I HAVE LESSONS, COMMITMENTS and YANG EN AND I HAD TO GO PROPOSE TO MRS SETHO

=)

What I mean is that Yang En and I have to go submit a proposal for Mrs Setho's um.... approval/disapproval because I cannot for the life of me remember what that word is. And to think that during PSC/SLC/PSB meetings we just threw it around like a fat rubber ball.

I'm also asking Glen and Sherman now on MSN both of whom are not replying *Insert =( face*

Add Ze Wei to that list, I am despo.

IT"S VETTING! Figured it out halfway while asking Sherman. Brilliance Aura lah, what to do?

=)

Anyway, my mind this morning was like absolutely abuzz with stupid mathematical workings still blazing in my mind and I was like screaming into my pillow to just SHUT UP and SLEEP GODAMNIT!

I finally conked out at around 6.30 I guess. Yang En and John do not like to reply SMSes at 6.30 in the morning either. Lazy bums >.< style="font-style: italic;">suay.

Everyone has their own strong points. Needless to say, yet I will say it, everyone comes with their own weak points too.

So today, I was re-reading The 7 Habits of Effective People and something struck me.

Interdependency

I didn't really realize the significance of that word until now, which I suppose just screams how important one's paradigm is. Up to now, I've been so focused on the weak points of everyone - others and myself , that I've never did see the connection.

No one is at maximum effectiveness in independency. Yes, it's good to BE independent if the situation calls of it, and it can never hurt. But there's independent and there's just not communicating with others. And I've been doing the latter, because I always thought that I do a better job ( which, honestly, is mostly true ) than others in certain areas.

Yet, I never tried to combine our efforts. It might be more 'troublesome' in the end, but if it's better...then isn't it really up to the circumstances? I have flaws and he has flaws, but by working together, we help each other cover our flaws don't we?

I might see the problem, but not be able to obtain the solution.
He might not see the problem, but be able to obtain the solution.

Instead of bitching about the problem, I could simply tell him, and he'd be able to solve the problem. In the end, we both win.

So yeah, it's really opened my eyes to see a lot more, I hope, this piece of revelation. And through it, I hope to be able to better understand others, and make up for my flaws.

So sorry to people like Yang En and Alphonsus for being so... stubborn. While I still do feel as if you guys didn't really give me all that I do deserve, but it's no excuse for me to have gone on and done such retarded things. So, yeah, forgive and forget yeah? No hard feelings I hope, and though we'll inevitably argue, let's develop stronger bonds after every conflict yeah?

Best friends, yeah?